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Value is an interesting word. It is fascinating and economic friendly, even as it applies inversely to individuals. Your values give you an edge in life and position you ahead for possible opportunities. It could be referred to as favour being complemented with hard work. Everyone has certain treasures placed on them by the Almighty God. It could either be innate or acquired as life progresses. Values can be redefined based on individual preferences and living penchants. Now, it is established that everyone has a treasure that can either be acquired or readily utilized and effectively maximized, not to be traded for peanuts. It is highly regarded, your heart lies there and the question goes to my audience “the esteem ladies”. What have you identified as your real worth (value)? What’s your approach in letting people know your worth indeed? How deftly are you willing to go in order to achieve your goals in life, in identifying and utilizing your value as a lady? Value...

It is our primary responsibility as women, and our irreplaceable values as mothers to our immediate society and community to perform our deluged responsibilities at every stage of transition from the stage of being a girl child to that of motherhood. Moreso, as it concerns our families, homes, environments and our societies at large. Women should understand that these responsibilities are unchanging in spite of the circumstances. We have to fulfill our obligation with love and satisfaction. It is expedient for every girl child to be groomed and by growth process grow into   the full knowledge of her role as a female and should at all times be ready to deploy her responsibilities as transition takes place from her childhood through her adulthood. It shouldn’t just be a phenotypic transformation but in her knowledge of God’s word for spiritual growth, in the knowledge of her purpose in life, her health as she also guides others through transition. When a female is we...

The word ‘drive’ simply means to; ‘guide’, ‘control’, ‘direct’, which could be related to a car, nail, golf ball, career, condition, or life in general, as the driver remains in control at the moment of initiation. Humans most commonly the females get caught up with real issues that make them identify what really inspires or motivates our pursuits, ambitions, and life in general. These and many more driving forces are the determining factor to our success and much more our struggles and failures in life. What really drives your life as a girl child, woman and as a human is what we shall be focusing on. We need to be acquainted with opportunistic factors that could drive our lives and drive it formidably. And for that purpose, we need to eliminate such factors so as not to take hold of us and our success in future.    It is quite unfortunate that most individuals are in a state of dilemma, being threatened by the challenges of life without acknowledging the nee...